Feeling Incomplete Without Love? It’s Time To Revisit Your Beliefs.
A simple yet powerful analogy to put things into perspective
Do you ever feel incomplete without love?
As a relationship coach, I talk to countless individuals from all walks of life. What continually strikes me is our societal obsession with finding love. More specifically, people obsess over the idea of a particular kind of love — one they consider to be true or adhere to some ideal they have in their mind.
Sadly, this pursuit heaps mountains of pressure and anxiety on well-intentioned individuals. The insatiable desire to find the person of their dreams naturally leads them to dating apps whose nature leads us to make quick decisions based on an artificial presentation.
What happens next is a familiar story. You choose based on your perceived type (look). You painfully recreate the same toxic situations repeatedly, often concluding that you are the reason these relationships don’t work and that you are broken or unlovable.
Why?
Would we be doing this if we weren’t so obsessed with romance and the idea of love?
Now, I want to be clear I’m not saying the desire for a loving relationship is bad. I’m questioning what makes us so consumed by…
